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The
NDE and Homecoming |
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Kevin Williams'
Research Conclusions |
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Examples of
Homecoming in the NDE
Betty Bethard's NDE homecoming experience:
When you die you
are greeted by loved ones first so that you may understand what
has happened. There is a big celebration, like a birthday party,
heralding your arrival. Family and friends who have gone on
before you are there to celebrate your arrival. There is always
good at the time of your cross-over. Even people who have lived
lives of selfishness will know and understand the rejoicing.
Whatever you have sown you are going to reap in terms of
structuring your experiences and lessons which continue on the
other side. But the first few days of cross-over (as you know
time on the Earth plane) you are allowed to be with your
teachers, and those who have loved you in the past. You are able
to see those you left behind and to hear their thoughts and
words. The first six weeks we stay very close to our loved ones
on the Earth plane ... After the first six weeks the soul meets
with what may be called a loving board of directors. It is
composed of teachers and other higher beings who have walked
with you. These beings help you review your past life, to begin
to look at what was learned and not learned, and what you wish
to work on or do from this point. (Betty
Bethards)
Ned Dougherty's NDE homecoming experience:
I turned to my
right, realizing that a group of spiritual beings had joined us
on the celestial field. This event was indeed a homecoming for
me. Among the group of spiritual beings, I recognized deceased
friends and relatives from my life. I also recognized other
friends from my spiritual life prior to my birth on Earth. I was
filled with joy when I recognized my grandparents, aunts, and
uncles who had died during my life. However, I was disappointed
because I did not see my Dad among the group. I then recognized
other friends from my life, including a girl from high school. I
did not know she had died. The feelings of love and joy that I
shared with these relatives and friends were far beyond the
emotions I had shared with them during my life. As the child of
an alcoholic and broken home, I did not communicate feelings to
relatives or friends very well. In fact, I wasn't aware that I
had many feelings. Most of my feelings were hidden inside. Now
that I was at my homecoming as a spiritual being, the greetings
were the kind that I had imagined took place in a healthy
family. It seemed as if we were celebrating every major holiday,
every birth and birthday, every wonderful event in all of our
lives in a manner that we could never celebrate as mortal human
beings. I wanted this celebration and homecoming to continue
forever, but a silence suddenly fell across the crowded
amphitheater. (Ned Dougherty)
Sylvia Browne's psychic revelations:
Most people,
who go through the heavenly process, go through a tunnel and
towards the light of God. They return home to the place they
came from on the other side. Here, they have a reunion with
family and friends who have departed before them. After the
reunion, most of us are lead by our spirit guide to a building
on the other side called the Hall of Wisdom. In a sacred room,
we see our lives flash before us ... Once a person has adjusted
to the transition, they can visit a place called the Hall of
Records where historical data is stored such as the charts of
everyone's past lives. Another beautiful structure is the Hall
of Justice where people go before the Council of Elders who are
highly advanced spokespersons of God who help us decide how we
are to progress further into the spirit realm. Sylvia describes
seven levels of advancement and they are: (1) The reunion and
homecoming previously discussed, (2) The orientation process
previously discussed, (3) Becoming skilled in a particular
vocation, (4) Becoming creative in the arts, (5) Researching
areas of progress and passing the knowledge to Earth through a
process of infused knowledge, (6) Becoming a teacher or leader,
(7) Forfeiting your identity as a personality by willingly
absorbing into the light of God. (Sylvia
Browne)
Betty Eadie's NDE homecoming experience:
Life does not end
when we die. Death is a rebirth into a spirit world of light and
love, a transition from the physical to the spiritual that is no
more frightening or painful than passing between rooms through
an open doorway. It is a joyful homecoming to our natural home.
(Betty Eadie)
George Anderson's psychic revelations:
Well,
according to what they say, go through the different levels of
consciousness. We're working our way up. It's like, to go up to
the twelfth grade, you've got to pass the first through the
eleventh. When we pass on, we do go into the tunnel, we can go
through these little darker levels, which can represent a form
of hell or purgatory, because these are the two negative levels,
or the darker ones. But if we've been a good person, we
generally just seem to pass through them very quickly and then
we go on through the third and fourth levels of consciousness,
where average people such as ourselves go - not everybody can be
a Mother Teresa, who would probably go higher up. When we go
through these levels we meet our relatives and friends greeting
us at the end of the tunnel, much as in the movie Resurrection,
where they're waiting and they lead us into the light. And
there's like a form of spiritual rejuvenation, like a reunion,
like a party, 'Hey, it's great to see you again.' We recognize
each other by personality. As we all have individual, unique
fingerprints, we each have a very singular personality. (George
Anderson)
Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross' NDE research:
His entire
family had piled into a family van and were on the way to pick
him up when this tragic accident occurred which burned his
entire family to death. He shared the shock and the numbness,
the utter disbelief of suddenly being a single man, of having
had children and suddenly becoming childless, of living without
a single close relative. He told of his total inability to come
to grips with it. He shared how he changed from a money-earning,
decent, middle-class husband and father to a total bum, drunk
every day from morning to night, using every conceivable drug
and trying to commit suicide in every conceivable way, yet never
able to succeed. His last recollection was that after two years
of literally bumming around, he was lying on a dirt road at the
edge of a forest, drunk and stoned as he called it, trying
desperately to be reunited with his family. Not wanting to live,
not even having the energy to move out of the road when he saw a
big truck coming toward him and running over him.
It was at this
moment that he watched himself in the street [sic], critically
injured, while he observed the whole scene of the accident from
a few feet above. It was at this moment that his family appeared
in front of him, in a glow of light with an incredible sense of
love. They had happy smiles on their faces, and simply made him
aware of their presence, not communicating in any verbal way but
in the form of thought transference, sharing with him the joy
and happiness of their present existence. This man was not able
to tell us how long this reunion lasted. He was so awed by his
family's health, their beauty, their radiance and their total
acceptance of this present situation, by their unconditional
love. He made a vow not to touch them, not to join them, but to
re-enter his physical body so that he could share with the world
what he had experienced. It would be a form of redemption for
his two years of trying to throw his physical life away. It was
after this vow that he watched the truck driver carry his
totally injured body into the car. He saw an ambulance speeding
to the scene of the accident, he was taken to the hospital's
emergency room and he finally re-entered his physical body, tore
off the straps that were tied around him and literally walked
out of the emergency room. He never had delirium tremens or any
aftereffects from the heavy abuse of drugs and alcohol. He felt
healed and whole, and made a commitment that he would not die
until he had the opportunity of sharing the existence of life
after death with as many people as would be willing to listen.
It was after reading a newspaper article about my appearance in
Santa Barbara that he sent a message to the auditorium. By
allowing him to share with my audience he was able to keep the
promise he made at the time of his short, temporary, yet happy
reunion with his entire family. (Dr.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross)
Aziz Khabirpour's research paper on NDEs:
Meeting
others during a NDE is not uncommon, and often has great effect
upon the person's being afterwards. The people they meet are
either family members or very close friends. These people, in
form of spiritual beings, are usually there to either protect or
guide the person. It is not always common for the person to be
seen, but usually they are more felt'. One woman who met her
family when she died states, I felt that they had come to
protect or guide me. It was almost as if I was coming home, and
they were there to greet or welcome me. All this time, I had the
feeling of everything light and beautiful. It was a beautiful
and glorious moment (Moody 55). Accounts have also been
reported where the dead person is guided around by his/her pet,
that he/she used to have. The people one encounters with are
usually people that played an important role in ones life. The
people that were seen could often be described as soul mates. So
this shows how only people that we have a special bond with in
this life, will we encounter in the next. (Aziz
Khabirpour)
Michelle Dillon's NDE homecoming experience:
And then I was
Home and I knew it was Home and I wasn't afraid. I saw lots of
people I knew, some of whom I've since met, and a lot of whom I
knew were "related" but that wasn't what mattered. What mattered
was that I KNEW them and they KNEW me and we hadn't said a word.
Or, well, we had, sort of, only not SAID. But I have never since
been involved in such a joyful welcome, being loved, totally
loved. (Michelle Dillon)
Randy Gehling's NDE homecoming experience:
Randy could hear
beautiful music playing somewhere off in the distance. "Just a
little ways off I could see a bridge with someone standing on
it. Beyond the bridge, I saw a golden city with towers like
European castles. The whole city seemed to be shining with light
that shot up into the sky like a giant searchlight. I could see
that some of the domes of the city were red, others were gold,
and a few were blue. The gates and walls of the city seemed to
be made of bright blue, red, and violet lights." Randy asked Areo if they were going to visit the city. The angel nodded.
"That's to be your new home, Randy." They began walking toward
the bridge to the city, and Randy saw that the man standing
awaiting them was his Grandpa Hansen. Randy ran to his
grandfather and felt his strong arms close around him. Grandpa
Hansen had been a farmer all of his life in Minnesota. He had
died, still a powerful man, when Randy was six. Randy asked his
beloved grandfather if he would now be living with him in
heaven. "One day," Grandpa Hansen told him. "But not just yet."
When Randy questioned his grandfather, he told him that he still
had things to learn on Earth. (Randy
Gehling)
Laurelynn Martin's NDE homecoming experience:
As I admired the beauty of the light, I was drawn closer,
feeling the radiant warmth, infinite love and lasting peace. I
felt as if I were home in the light. Before I became
further engulfed in the light, I became aware of many spirits.
They surrounded, embraced and supported my journey with their
gentleness, knowledge and guidance. I felt one of them approach
from my right upper side. This familiar presence came forward
and my feelings changed to sheer joy when I discovered my thirty
year old brother-in-law, the one who had died seven months
earlier from cancer. My essence moved to meet his essence. I
couldn't see with my eyes or hear with my ears, yet I
instinctively knew that it was "Wills." I heard his smile, saw
his laughter and felt his humor. It didn't make sense, but it
made complete sense. We were separate but we were also one. It
was as if I had come home and my brother-in-law was here to
greet me. I instantly thought how glad I was to be with him,
because now I could make up for the last time I had seen him
before his death. I felt sad and a bit guilty for not taking the
time out of my busy schedule to have a heart-to-heart talk with
him when he had asked me to. I realized I was not being judged
by him but by myself. I was in his position dying, wanting to
say goodbye to those I loved, and then meeting people like
myself not "getting it" not getting that all the achievement,
money or recognition in the world cannot be taken with you when
you die. The only thing you take with you is the love you give
away. (Laurelynn Martin)
Karen Schaeffer's NDE homecoming experience:
Immediately I was
in the most beautiful serene place I had ever been. My
grandfather, another person whom I had known in a previous life,
and a guardian were ready to help me with the transition. They
told me of the accident, showed me the site. It was my time to
come home they said. The overwhelming love and happiness of that
place was so inviting. (Karen
Schaeffer)
Dr. Michael Newton's regression research:
After
physical death, a soul's journey back home ends with debarkation
into the space reserved for their own colony, as long as they
are not a very young soul or isolated for other reasons. The
souls represented in these cluster groups are intimate old
friends who have the same awareness level. Members of the same
cluster group are closely united for all eternity. These
tightly-knit clusters are often composed of like-minded souls
with common objectives which they continually work out with each
other. Usually they choose lives together as relatives and close
friends during their incarnations on Earth. (Dr.
Michael Newton)
Barbara Springer's NDE homecoming experience:
I then became
aware of a bright heavenly being. I felt as if I was in the
presence of God. This being had light radiating from him and he
embraced me. And when he embraced me, I could feel the most
powerful love. It is the greatest love that there is in the
universe. There is no greater love. It was absolute, total,
real, great, engulfing love. I felt the love surrounding me. I
felt it flowing through me. There really are no words. I can't
find words to explain how I felt. The amount of joy I felt. The
amount of love I knew I was being given. I felt as if I had come
home. I knew this is where I actually belonged. Even though I
love Earth and I love living here. But when I was encountered by
that being, I knew I had come home. (Barbara
Springer)
Barbara Marie's NDE homecoming experience:
And then there was
a period of being embraced by this love and peace and serenity
and knowing I had reached my final destination, that this was
truly a home. It gave new meaning to the word "home." This, she
realized, was where she actually belonged. This is where she
wanted to permanently be. (Barbara
Marie)
Arthur Yensen's NDE homecoming experience:
As the
heaven-people gathered around, the oldest, largest and
strongest-looking man announced pleasantly, "You are in the land
of the dead. We lived on Earth, just like you, till we came
here." With unbounded enthusiasm I shouted, "This is wonderful!"
"It's marvelous!" they answered. Then with delight they told me
how I could swim around in the lake as long as I pleased and
when I came out, I'd be dry! Another one said, "You can run,
jump, dance, sing and play as much as you want to and you'll
never get tired!" Then I noticed that the landscape was
gradually becoming familiar. It seemed as if I had been here
before. I remembered what was on the other side of the
mountains. Then with a sudden burst of joy, I realized that this
was my real home! Back on Earth I had been a visitor, a misfit,
and a homesick stranger. With a sigh of relief, I said to
myself, "Thank God I'm back again. This time I'll stay!" (Arthur
Yensen)
More NDE and
Homecoming insights coming soon!
"Think of stepping on the shore and finding it heaven, of touching a hand and finding it God's, of breathing new air and finding it celestial, of waking up in glory and finding it home." -
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